In my opinion, guys tend to cheat more in this long distance relationship,but when it comes to marriage the tables turn and women enjoy more. But that is not the point, we are missing the bigger picture when it comes on how to sustain any relationship ,be it a long distance one or the come we stay and see if works.
Cheating has become rampant ,like a normal thing to do for people to realize they are in relationships.
Personally,breaking up is not an option unless I initiate it. But at some point its gonna happen regardless of how the relationship is fairing on.
During a one on one conversation with Liz a relationship expert,(though she is single and she says she knows things about relationship) I wanted to know why my four relationship has not worked despite me not cheating. I guess it was a bad idea because the answers she gave bore many others.
After the session I quit the therapy and went out to the field to ask the real experts about matters of the heart.
The question possed to the street was who moves on to the better person when a break up is the only option left. As expected it was a tricky question and so were the answers. Many females companion felt they moved on to a better person in terms of strength, maturity and finance,on the other hand the male species felt they moved on to people who offered more Love , peace and harmony to say the least beautiful ones.
I guess its only fair to say boy child moves on to the better person after a break up because what builds a relationship is love peace and harmony even the national anthem suggests that.
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