It's an epitome of endless darkness in today's love life and the option of getting a perfect love story are narrowing down. I don't know why many if not all think love coexist with sex. Can we just not have a perfect love story without having sex. There is a simple explanation for that because no one can. Sex as many believe strengthens any romantic relationship and is a way to know if the relationship will work in the future.
In an attempt to explain why sex is important to parents and guardians, an article titled Sex and education by mercy wanjama terrorized the mindset of parents into allowing their kids have all the information about sex at a tender age. I know what many of you will think, it's a bad idea to let them learn about sex at an early stage because it can cause so many early pregnancies.
Misconceptions are leading us to think that sex is all about penetration. Mention sex and any young guy will quickly imagine the two parties involved naked rolling in a bed or whatever they were.
Let's widen our scope and mindset and think beyond the obvious. If sex was all about penetration then it doesn't have to involve two people. Sex toys are proving to be better in doing that than many who can't last beyond the minimal 15 minutes. sex is like a whole universe, in plant's it's called pollination, in mammals, it's sex, in cats I'm sure it has its unique name and any other reproducing living organisms.
I can't discuss sex as a topic because it's endless, what I can do is take part in it and try reasoning with so many on why you should stop calling out people for cheating when you are in a relationship that has not been sealed by the church. In many ways, the two are the same just that people think they aren't. It's worse because the world has made it normal for people to engage in sex before tying the knot.
As many say " kukulana" which by the way is wrong because people of a different sex can never "eat one" another. It's always one "eating the other". I'm not saying that to make you think I'm indulging you into thinking I support it. I'm also on the wrong end of this topic but I must say it.
If you sleep with another person who is not in any form of agreement with his/her partner isn't cheating, it is fornicating. For marriages it's adultery and we should stop the nonsense of encouraging non-altered relationships to continue thriving in form of they are loyal to each other.
Be loyal in a marriage, that's the best relationship advice these relationship experts should be giving out. Just to let you know I also share your sentiments of disagreeing with this information but the truth is the truth no matter what we color it with. So I'm swallowing it and I think you should to
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