is lying with pure intentions wrong?

sometimes the truth doesn't set you free as many say. earlier today i had my radio show and our main theme was lies. I wanted to know if sometimes lies help in strengthening our relationship,let us not lie to ourselves that speaking the truth will help us gain favours from different people. infact a survey conducted shows that almost 65% of the ladies only fall for  guys that tell them lies. this has proven to be true because no lady will enter into a relationship with a guy who says he has nothing.

        please don't hold me accountable for anything 

                   blame the scientists who come up with the statics 

                   

A new study out of Wharton shows that there are times when lying is actually ethical. Welcome to the age of benevolent deception.

my argument was on those lies that we tell with pure intentions , lies that are meant to bring peace rather than cause conflict. a pretty simple little white lie that has no harm to anyone. i'm not speaking about promising a lady the world and later on providing a dry grass island . I'm talking about telling her you will be home at 7 and be there by 9. she may get mad but such lies have easy ready excuses like ,babe there was heavy traffic along the highway and my phone battery died so i couldn't call to tell you.

just ensure that before telling such lies, the recipient should not know of such stories . telling a pro who has mastered every small lie  such things will make you look foolish. lets not test Karma knowledge because i'm pretty sure she has just one rule when it comes to lies,its a sin.

The deal breakers in many small little white lies comes when you have to prove your point, you might have told your little white lie with your pure intentions but when it comes to proving yourself right it doesn't matter.

John was given three years in jail for prosecuting a criminal with a lie that could not be backed up, don't get me wrong the guy was guilty as he looked but John could not back up his made up story. these simply leaves us with one option if we want to pull off such lies,look for backup either a situation or someone, lucky for many of us who once in awhile can't do without telling such.

i'm pretty sure everyone tells a lie at some point, wait not at some point, after every 1hr and 15 mins we lie. you might be wondering how is this possible.well it is ,we are either lying to someone or ourselves

bott0om line is that we don't have to tell the truth all the time ,which you cant scientifically proven .

just be yourself and lie once after every 4hrs.