flirting with someone you would never meet is not cheating

They are many forms of flirting: if we start mentioning we won't be able to finish. But is flirting a form of cheating if there is no any sexual activities.



Dr Jimmy says it's a starting point for cheating because flirting with someone  means you can easily give in to their sexual desires. He adds that it's fine to kill any flirtous text or conversation that can lead to cheating.

Jane on the other hand disaggreas with him saying her present boyfriend never at any point of their relationship Sent her flirtous messages. She goes ahead to say she has never dated anyone that she has flirted with because it never exceeds that point.

James on the other hand shares the same sentiments as Dr Jimmy saying it's so easy to ask a girl you have had a flirtous chat with out on a date. Asked if he can date girl that does not tolerate flirting,he gave mixed reactions saying that she can flirt only with him.

But how about flirting with a total stranger . Like you are only attracted to their texts and chats and the possibility of meeting stands at an amazing zero percent.

Relationship advisor Janice says it's still wrong to chat flirtous with someone you never meet because cheating does not only involve sleeping with someone. Sex is the most common form of cheating but it's not the only way. She says .
The worst form of cheating is forming a connection with someone and flirting can easily make that possible.

Amos although disaggreas with her opinion saying when it comes to communication almost anything is considered cheating. He says he almost broke up with his girlfriend over laughing emojis he had send someone. It only turned out the person on the receiving end was only his sister.

So I asked both Dr Jimmy and relationship advisor  Janice what flirtous messages look like to them. Dr Jimmy says any message that has an intention of bringing sex into discussion should be considered flirting. Dr Janice on the other hand says any text that aims at creating any form of connection should be seen as flirtous.




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